Say this:
“Stomp like a roaring T-Rex, then freeze like a sneaky dino statue. What does your T-Rex sound like?”
Physical grounding techniques help release adrenaline and restore calm.

Big Feelings Deck, in Russian
The complete Big Feelings Deck, in Russian. The same 54 therapist-built calm-down cards, delivered as an instant digital download.
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What you get
Read the actual words
One deck, 54 cards, sorted by feeling. Your kid picks the card that matches the feeling, and the card does the talking. These are three real cards, word for word.
Say this:
“Stomp like a roaring T-Rex, then freeze like a sneaky dino statue. What does your T-Rex sound like?”
Physical grounding techniques help release adrenaline and restore calm.
Say this:
“Imagine a balloon in your chest. Breathe and let it grow bigger and warmer. What color is your happy balloon?”
Visualization and slow breathing soothe emotional distress and promote relaxation.
Say this:
“Hug your stuffed buddy or blanket tightly and let it make you feel cozy. What's your buddy's name?”
Physical touch releases oxytocin, reducing sadness and increasing feelings of safety.
This is the Russian edition of the Big Feelings Deck, the same therapist-designed cards families use in 68 countries, now in Russian so the words land for your family.
When a big feeling hits, you grab a card, do the quick activity together, and the storm passes faster. No prep, no training, and it works even after you have already lost your cool.
How it works
The moment a feeling hits, you grab the card that fits instead of scrambling for the right words.
Every card is written word-for-word by age, so you just read it out loud. No prep, no training.
Your kid picks a calm-down strategy they actually like, and the storm passes faster than it used to.
What changes, and when
Tonight
The next big feeling, you grab a card instead of scrambling. One script for you, one 60-second reset for them. No prep, no props.
Week 1
90% of families see a change within the first week. Meltdowns get shorter because you both know what happens next.
Month 1
94% of families report fewer meltdowns. The card basket becomes the routine, and kids start picking their own reset before you ask.
The people behind it
Trailies isn't a worksheet from a stranger. It's the script two people wished they'd had, made with the clinicians who know what actually works.

I spent years watching good parents freeze at the exact moment their kid needed words. So we wrote the words down.

Nobody handed my parents a script. I built the one I wish they'd had, so the next kid gets the talk instead of the silence.
Every deck and script is built with child psychologists and grounded in PCIT, CBT, and 200+ studies.
No production crew






The honest comparison
In-the-moment calm-down cards
Sorted by feeling, chosen by your kid
Age-banded (3-10 and tween/teen)
PCIT / CBT-informed
Works the second a meltdown starts
What it costs
What parents are saying
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as a TK teacher i'm introducing the big feelings deck with my class this semester. the language is perfect for this age — concrete, clear, accessible. my colleagues are already asking to borrow the cards.
Melissa C
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the key is knowing what kind of big feeling you're dealing with. a frustration tantrum and a temper tantrum need different responses. these cards address both — and the guidance for parents on how to tell the difference is actually really helpful.
Barry C
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initially nothing shifted. then on day 4 or 5 my son stopped mid-meltdown and asked for the cards himself. i put them away thinking we were done but he's been asking again. the key: show them during calm times first. talk about the emotions. model using them yourself. then they work when it's hard.
Jenny P
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as a body safety educator i want to highlight that emotional literacy — which the big feelings deck builds — is actually a protective factor against abuse. children who can name and communicate their feelings are more likely to disclose if something happens. these two products work together.
Rebecca B
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we use these at circle time and i've noticed a measurable change in how the kids in my class handle frustration over the semester. they're naming their feelings instead of acting them out. that's the whole goal of emotional regulation education. these cards do it.
Wendy F
Verified Buyer
used these in my foster support group. parents of children with early trauma need concrete tools more than anyone — and these cards are exactly that. concrete, visual, repeatable. the children in our group took to them immediately.
Jana H
Verified Buyer
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Try it with your family, risk-free. If it's not right for you, email us within 90 days and we'll make it right, no hoops and no hard feelings. The only risk is another week of winging it.
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