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What parents say after their first Talk.

Real conversations finally happening in real homes. 111,868+ kids helped across 68 countries, and the live feed of every review we've ever received, scrolling below.

  • Big Feelings Deck rated 4.91/5
  • 360+ verified reviews
  • 111,868+ kids helped
  • 68 countries
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“Two weeks after we did the body safety cards, my 7-year-old used the actual language from the deck to tell me about something that happened at school. She had the words because of these cards. She didn't have them before. I cried in the kitchen after. Not because it was sad. Because I'd been so scared of this conversation and it just… wasn't scary.”
Verified Buyer · Jessica R.Mom of three (ages 4, 7, 11) · Denver, CO · The Body Safety Talk

Every family is different. In our survey of 2,500 customers, 94% report fewer meltdowns and 90% see a change in the first 7 days.

A young girl filling in her Safety Circle worksheet from the Body Safety Talk
★ Bestseller

The Body Safety Talk.

The conversation most parents put off for two years. And the one they tell us, after, they wish they'd done two years ago. Word-for-word scripts by age. Five minutes at bedtime.

4.89/5 Rating127 Reviews111,868+ kids helped

“I'd been meaning to have this talk for two years. We did the first card at breakfast. She wasn't scared. She was asking questions. By the third rule she was teaching her little brother.”

Hannah K.

Verified Buyer · 5 stars · Mom of two (4 and 6) · Phoenix, AZ

“My husband picked up the card and read it at bedtime. She said 'I know that, daddy' and they moved to the scenario cards like a game. Not awkward. Not even once.”

Mariana T.

Verified Buyer · 5 stars · Mom of one (5) · Austin, TX

“As a survivor I've been DREADING this conversation for four years. I finally did it last night. I literally just held the card and read it. The whole thing took four minutes. I cried after she fell asleep, not because it was hard but because it was DONE. I finally did it.”

Christine W.

Verified Buyer · 5 stars · Mom of one (6) · Nashville, TN

“Just did the body safety cards with both kids. 6yo and 4yo. The 6yo already knew some of it from school but the tricky touch rule was completely new. The 4yo just thought it was a game. My mom never said a word to me about any of this. I just broke a generational pattern in 10 minutes at the kitchen table.”

Renee D.

Verified · Cycle Breaker · 5 stars · Mom of two (4 and 6) · Seattle, WA

A mom and her two boys going through the Online Safety Talk cards on a tablet
New release

The Online Safety Talk.

Roblox. Snapchat. Discord. The platforms your kid is on, the predators they're not ready for, and the exact words to start the talk before something happens. Our newest Talk, and the first reviews are in.

4.8/5 Rating11 Reviews

“My 9-year-old has been on Roblox for a year and I had no idea what to actually say to her about strangers in the chat. The script gave me the exact words. We did it Sunday morning. She asked me three questions I didn't even know she'd been thinking about.”

Lauren P.

Verified Buyer · 5 stars · Mom of one (9) · Chicago, IL

“I was the parent who said 'we'll just monitor screen time, that's enough.' It wasn't. The Online Safety Talk made me realize I'd been confusing supervision with education. There's a difference. My kids needed both.”

Maya S.

Verified Buyer · 5 stars · Mom of two (8 and 11) · Brooklyn, NY

“My son plays Fortnite with headphones on and I realized I'd never once asked who he was talking to. We did the Talk after dinner on a Tuesday. Two weeks later he came to me on his own because someone in a game chat asked what school he goes to. He knew exactly what to do. That alone was worth it.”

Danielle R.

Verified Buyer · 5 stars · Mom of two (7 and 10) · Denver, CO

A fanned-out handful of colorful Big Feelings Deck cards
Original

The Big Feelings Deck.

The first deck we ever made. The one that turned a Tuesday morning cereal meltdown into something both parent and kid can actually move through. 54 cards. Used in homes, classrooms, and therapy offices in 68 countries.

4.91/5 Rating198 Reviews54 Cards

“My kids ask for the breathing cards when they're upset. I use them too. Honestly? It changed the room.”

Sarah M.

Verified Buyer · 5 stars · 3rd Grade Teacher · Portland, OR

“I recommend these to every family I work with. Parents need something they can grab at 7 AM when everyone's falling apart. This is that thing.”

Lisa Chen, LMFT

Verified · Therapist · 5 stars · Licensed Family Therapist

“We had been screaming at each other every morning before school for a year. The 'name the feeling' card cut it in half in a week. Not a typo. A WEEK. My 5-year-old now points to the card before I do.”

Priya N.

Verified Buyer · 5 stars · Mom of two (5 and 8) · Toronto, Canada

What we hear most

Three things parents tell us, almost word-for-word.

Across every Talk, every age range, every country, these are the patterns that show up over and over in the reviews.

Every family is different. In our survey of 2,500 customers, 94% report fewer meltdowns and 90% see a change in the first 7 days.

“It was actually easy.”

  • “We did the first card at breakfast.”
  • “Five minutes at bedtime. Done.”
  • “I literally just held the card and read it.”
  • “The whole thing took four minutes.”

“My kid asked for more.”

  • “By rule three she was teaching her little brother.”
  • “My kids ask for the breathing cards when they're upset.”
  • “My 5-year-old now points to the card before I do.”
  • “Can we do one more, please?”

“Something changed.”

  • “I cried in the kitchen after.”
  • “Not because it was sad. Because it just wasn't scary.”
  • “She had the words because of these cards.”
  • “I just broke a generational pattern in 10 minutes.”
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as a childhood SA survivor i LOVE this. i didn't report what happened to me until i was 24 — i was 11 when it happened. i didn't have the right words. these cards give kids the exact language they need. every single parent should have these.

Annie

Verified Buyer

Body Safety Talk

my abuser had two sides: scary and sweet. that really messes with a little girl. good touch bad touch didn't cover it. the tricky touch rule is the one i needed as a kid. it can feel ticklish or even nice and still be wrong. my daughter knows that now. that card is everything.

Mariska

Verified Buyer

Body Safety Talk

my kids (adults now) never had sleepovers because i was terrified. but i didn't have the language to explain why or to actually prepare them. these cards would have given me that. i'm sharing them with every new parent i know.

Kelly K

Verified Buyer

Body Safety Talk

i provide treatment for children and ordered multiple sets for my clinical staff. this is a needed product — NEEDED. the structure is research-based, the language is age-appropriate, and the scenario cards are unlike anything else i've seen. this should be in every waiting room.

Beschelle L

Verified Buyer

Body Safety Talk

just ordered for my very inquisitive 6 year old. did the first rule the same night it landed in my inbox. she literally high-fived me when we finished and said 'can we do another one?' i said yes.

Alicia M

Verified Buyer

Body Safety Talk

what a shame that we as parents have to teach our children to protect themselves from adults who should be safe. but we do. and these cards make it possible to do it in a way that empowers rather than terrifies. my kids feel safer — not scareder.

Robin

Verified Buyer

Body Safety Talk

we need to learn to protect kids and these cards give every parent the tools to do that. the people who build these clearly love and understand children. so glad i found this.

Rudy

Verified Buyer

Body Safety Talk

my husband did the first rule at bedtime before i did. he was nervous. by the third card he said 'why was i scared of this? she's not scared at all.' that's what these scripts do. they make a conversation that felt impossible feel completely normal. completely doable.

Steph Y

Verified Buyer

Body Safety Talk

as a TK teacher i'm introducing the big feelings deck with my class this semester. the language is perfect for this age — concrete, clear, accessible. my colleagues are already asking to borrow the cards.

Melissa C

Verified Buyer

Big Feelings Deck

the key is knowing what kind of big feeling you're dealing with. a frustration tantrum and a temper tantrum need different responses. these cards address both — and the guidance for parents on how to tell the difference is actually really helpful.

Barry C

Verified Buyer

Big Feelings Deck

i wish resources like this were available to everyone. the whole product lineup — body safety, big feelings, online safety — addresses the conversations families most need to have and most often avoid. this company is doing the work.

Nina S

Verified Buyer

Trailies

as a survivor and a mom — the real names rule is the one i push most. a child who doesn't know the correct anatomical word can't clearly tell someone what happened. the real names card is the most important card in the deck and the one most parents skip. don't skip it.

Teresa T

Verified Buyer

Body Safety Talk

Now go have your first one.

Pick the Talk you've been putting off. Open the first card tonight. Five minutes at bedtime. The conversation finally done.

Debbie

Debbie · Co-Founder, Trailies